How to Find the Right Companion — Not Just Any Listing
With thousands of listings across hundreds of cities, knowing how to search smart means you spend less time browsing and more time with exactly the right person. Here's how to find what you're actually looking for.
Start with Filters, Not Browsing
The biggest mistake first-time users make is scrolling endlessly. Use filters first — you'll get to the right listing in a fraction of the time.
Female, Male, Trans, or Couples. The most fundamental filter — start here. Don't scroll past listings that aren't the right category.
Be specific. Searching "New York" vs "Brooklyn" can show very different results. If your city isn't showing enough listings, expand to the nearest major metro.
If you have a preference, filter. Otherwise, leave it open — age doesn't correlate with quality or experience level.
Many providers list their availability windows. If you only want someone available tonight or on weekends, filter by availability before you browse.
Featured listings are providers who've paid to boost their visibility. They're typically active, responsive, and invested in their business. A good default starting point.
How to Read a Listing Like a Pro
The Photos
Photos tell you a lot. Look for consistent image quality across multiple photos — that usually means they're real and recent. A provider with 6–10 clear photos has put real effort into their listing. A single blurry photo is a warning sign.
The Written Description
A well-written description in the provider's own voice is a strong quality indicator. It tells you about their personality, communication style, and professionalism. Generic one-liners often indicate a less-engaged provider.
Services Listed
Providers list what they offer. Read the services section carefully — it tells you if they offer what you're looking for and often indicates their style (companionship-focused vs. activity-focused).
Availability
Check their availability schedule against when you want to book. "Evenings only" or "weekends" providers can't accommodate last-minute weekday requests. Know this before you reach out.
Verification Badge
A "Verified" badge on a listing means the provider has been vetted. While not a guarantee, it adds a layer of legitimacy — especially useful when choosing between similar listings.
Listing Age & Freshness
Check when the listing was posted or last updated. A listing posted this week is more likely to be an active provider than one posted months ago. Recency matters.
How to Reach Out Effectively
Providers receive a lot of messages. A good first message stands out and gets a faster response.